True love stands the test of time, and for Pat and Ray, this sentiment could not be more accurate. On March 5th, 2025, the couple celebrated an incredible milestone – 70 years of marriage – at Butlers Mews Care Home in Rugby, where they now cherish their later years together.
Pat and Ray’s journey began in Birmingham, where fate brought them together at a local dance. At the time, Pat was a bright-eyed 22-year-old invoice typist living in Northfield, while Ray, a 24-year-old toolmaker from Quinton, caught her eye. Their connection was instant, blossoming into a deep and lasting love that led them to build a life together.
Their wedding took place at the charming St Bartholomew’s Church in Birmingham, surrounded by family and friends, marking the start of a lifelong partnership rich in love, laughter, and unwavering devotion.
Over the past seven decades, Pat and Ray have woven a tapestry of memories, raised a family and tackled life’s joys and challenges as a steadfast team. Through it all, they have built a treasure trove of cherished moments, always leaning on each other for unwavering support and companionship, proving that their bond only deepens with time.
Now, Pat and Ray reside at Butlers Mews Care Home in Rugby – a welcoming haven that offers a warm environment, attentive staff, and plenty of opportunities for socialising and making new friends. The care home is not just a residence; it’s a community that allows couples like Pat and Ray to thrive while enjoying their twilight years together.
Reaching a Platinum Wedding Anniversary is a special achievement, and for Pat and Ray, the celebration was made even more memorable with a heartfelt letter from His Majesty the King and Her Majesty the Queen, congratulating them on this incredible milestone. Their enduring love story serves as a powerful testament to the strength of commitment and companionship.
Congratulations to Pat and Ray on 70 remarkable years! Their journey is an inspiration to us all, proving that love deepens and blossoms as time goes on.


